From time to time, even seasoned homesteaders get to feeling overwhelmed with all there is to do to make their dreams come to pass. Homesteading is hard work, and homestead management is necessary for the smooth running of the homestead itself, let alone any plans for a future business, if that’s something you are interested in.
On this blog, I talk a lot about homestead organization and planning, as well as setting goals and more. As a seasoned homesteader, I understand the need to be able to make our own rules and do our own thing, but when it comes to successfully building a homestead, planning is tantamount to doing the actual building.
Change Your Habits and Stop Feeling Overwhelmed
That’s all it takes? Yep.
Change isn’t as easy as it is to talk about, but you already know that.
A Personal Experience
As a woman living the homesteader’s life for 10ish years now, I have been very used to the multi-tasking mindset.
I am a woman, you know.
As a matter of fact, I am such a multi-tasker that, and while it seems like this skill would be helpful, it’s actually been a detriment to my modern homesteading journey.
Basically, I’ve been a jill-of-all-trades-master-of-nothing. Sure, I know a lot of stuff, but putting it all to work so that it actually benefits my family is part of the mastery, and that’s been hard to achieve.
What It Was Like and What Happened
In my first few years of my homesteader’s life, I started many gardens, got chickens and rabbits, preserving food, learning more about using herbs, and tons more.
I bought books, soil, manure, seeds, canning equipment, tools, herbs, and animal feed…but never really succeeded at the level I was pursuing. Not with any of those skills!
Oh sure, I have learned a lot, and I have a ton of knowledge, but for those first few years, I had been unable to master any of them because I was spreading myself WAY too thin to be able to come to mastery with any skill.
If I’m honest, I still struggle with that. While I’m learning to be more single-minded when performing tasks, my head still wants me to chase all those wonderful, beautiful shiny objects that beckon me so.
What is keeping me from feeling overwhelmed today.
In 2020, I began working on becoming more mindful every day. It’s a practice that I had never exercised before. With the arrival of the internet in the 90s (to my life, anyway) and our “instant gratification” societal outlook, I never really felt like I had to. I actually don’t think I ever really knew what mindfulness was.
This lack of awareness did some serious damage to the way I have conducted my homesteading for the past 10 years, unfortunately.
Want to learn more about this? Here’s a science-based article that might help you leave multi-tasking behind, allowing you to improve your homesteading skills.
So what does that have to do with you?
You’re human aren’t you? I thought so.
But seriously, our instant gratification society and lifestyle is diametrically opposed to the slow life of homesteading. They just can’t really co-exist as a rule when so much of what we need to homestead requires single-focus learning and practice.
So how do you do that?
Slow down, choose a skill that you want to master first, then learn ONLY that skill until you are able to practice it comfortably. Mastery will come after you put in your time — don’t worry about that.
All you need to do is learn what you need to know and practice it until it is habit, routine, second-nature — whatever you want to call it. It will be foolproof for keeping you from feeling overwhelmed with the skills you learn. You will know instinctively what to do and when to do it.
Let’s break that down.
Pick Your Modern Homesteading Skill
So here’s the deal. Let’s think about which homesteading skill is most important for your family. Do you need to start producing food right away? Time to get some chickens or start a garden.
Maybe you’re a seasoned homesteader who has never had the time to learn how to preserve the food produced on your homestead? Then, honey, you need to learn to can, dehydrate, or freeze that fantastic food!
The point here is to think about the one thing that will move the ball forward for your homestead, and work only on that skill until you make it a normal part of what you do.
Here’s an example from my own experience: Over the summer, we were harvesting a lot of tomatoes. For some reason once I bring them into the house, I set them on the counter and forget them.
It’s my bad habit of thinking that since I did a lot of work harvesting, that the work was over when I got into the house. In an effort to keep myself from feeling overwhelmed, I actually prolonged the process, which did the exact opposite.
Because I was so lame at taking care of my produce, I took a dehydrating course in the fall. It took a few weeks and I dehydrated many foods. I learned that taking just 15 minutes per day can really help me to get control over my the small tomato harvests I bring in every day.
This works with any type of harvest if you can dehydrate it! Nothing goes bad, and I’ve mastered a skill that has become a daily (or weekly) habit!
Learn and Practice Your Skill
Once you know which skill you and your family will benefit from most, it’s time to make sure that you learn that skill. Do you know anyone that can teach you? One on one teaching is a really great way to learn, and my favorite way to teach someone homesteading skills.
If you don’t have anyone you can ask to teach you, perhaps you can join a Facebook group like mine to learn your homesteading skill. I have taught myself most everything I know from books, YouTube, Facebook groups, and by just practicing.
When I say practice your skill, I don’t mean just do it every now and then. That will leave you feeling overwhelmed every time you come back to use that skill.
I mean practice, like a doctor practices–he puts the things he knows to work every day! We have to do that too.
When I learned how to dehydrate food last fall, I did it pretty much every day that I had something to dehydrate. I mean–the husband and kids thought I might be looking at THEM as dehydrating prospects, I was doing it so much! (Totally kidding, I would probably can them rather than dehydrating them, he he.)
Master Your Skill
But seriously, you need to make sure that you fit your new skill into your lifestyle so that it sticks. Make time on your schedule to practice your new skill frequently.
You don’t want to spend time learning something so that it falls by the wayside and never becomes a workable piece of your homesteading journey.
No — you want this skill you are learning to become a fruitful one that provides for you and your family for years to come.
Once you are working this skill regularly, it will become second nature to you. You will notice yourself finding ways to make it more simple with each time your perform it.
Pretty soon, you will be a canning/dehyrating/knitting/gardening master, who knows not only how to do the skill, but how to make it fit into your life effortlessly.
And let’s not forget that this mastered skill is now working for your family by saving it money and providing its needs.
I call that a win!
Next!
Once you are completely comfortable with what you know and how you are using your mastered skill, it’s time to do the next one.
(Did you notice that I didn’t tell you at the beginning to pick more than one skill? That’s because I want you to avoid feeling overwhelmed with your homestead. You’re welcome.)
So wait until you are good with your mastered skill, THEN pick the next one. And do it all over again.
Again. And again. And again.
Do this one skill at a time until your homestead is exactly what you envisioned way back at the beginning. It’s your life and your homestead–take control of it and make it what you want it to be!
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Great article, Kristi! So much going on all the time, so for us, it’s a mindful approach to take things one step at a time. Great to hear your solutions:)
Don’t I know it! There is ALWAYS stuff happening, but it is very good to take everything one step at a time, as hard as it is to avoid multi-tasking!
I remind myself there is a season for everything. Plan a couple big projects and work on smaller ones. Can’t get it all done in one season or one year.
For sure, Candy! There’s always so much to do and pacing ourselves is a great way of dealing with it all!
I always appreciate your posts, you have such good information to share!
Thank you so much, Nancy! That really means a lot to me! 🙂
I feel the most overwhelmed in summer, when the garden is in full swing and I know I need to preserve the harvest…or lose it!
Thanks for sharing your ideas on making this easier!
OH yes, I hear that Lisa! I tend to do what I can and freeze the rest. But of course, that means that we lose some much needed freezer space!
I’m completely on board for choosing one skill and mastering it. I tend to forget to do it though, so this article is a great reminder.
I did that with your Dehydrating Made Easy course, Shelle! It helped so much to complete that from start to finish. It truly did change my kitchen!
Yup Homesteaders over whelmed!!!
I have that. I cook, can, dehydrate, garden, and just want to focus more on my gardening, herbs and get some chickens!! That I have to learn!!
Thanks for all the great information and tips!!!
Ha ha, yeah! I know what you mean, Pamela! You’re welcome, it’s always my pleasure to share!
I have recently read an article that stated multi tasking does NOT mean you will get more done. Now that I have read about mono tasking again, there must be something to it. Good read!
Thanks Amy! You know–it’s true. I have LOVED to and prided myself on the fact that I can multi-task. But now that I’ve found mono-tasking (and time blocking), it makes it so much easier to actually finish a project. This article was as much for me as it was for anyone else! Thanks for stopping in!
Kristi I loved this article! Since we rent our homestead and I cannot have farm animals, I am learning all I can in the meantime and networking with those who do have the animals I want in the future. I think it will help me because I will not only have some limited experience, and new skill set learned, but I will also have mentors who I can call if I hit a bad bump in the road. Homesteaders are some of the most caring folks I know, and they want to teach others! Thank you for your insightful article. There is always something new to learn and master. Even when we have a skill, sometimes we learn a new way to practice it that makes it easier. Thanks for sharing your knowledge with us all!
Yes, that’s so important Jennifer! Networking, I mean. Having people that we can rely on to help us learn what we need to is key to mastering the skills we need! Thank you so much for your kind comments, Jennifer!
This hits so close to home! Sometimes, it is just a matter of STARTING too! You can think about your to do list all day long, but nothing gets done until you actually START! And Homesteaders, always have an endless to do list!
Oh, and about those tomatoes, yes, dehydrating is awesome! But consider throwing those tomatoes in the freezer and dealing with them later when there is less food to preserve. I love pulling out gallon size zip locks full of home grown tomatoes in the middle of winter, and making sauce with them and canning them up on a cold winter weekend! I have an article on my blog talking about all the benefits of freezing some of your tomato harvest!
YES! I totally do that with the tomatoes in the summer, Tamara! Last year I had both my freezers so full of tomatoes that I couldn’t fit things we needed in there! All through fall, I did so many canning posts because I had so many!
So much good information here! Thank you.
You are so welcome, Monetta! Thank you for visiting!